With all of the talk and controversy surrounding the new sex ed curriculum being implemented in schools across Ontario this year, it got me questioning how I was going to have these types of conversations with my own kids. I always knew the day would come when I would get questioned, and I knew it would probably happen in the most awkward of locations. After all, isn't that what kids do? LOL
Cynthia Lloyst was right! At least in my opinion!
What Makes a Baby is geared for kids from preschool ages up to about 8 years. This book is written in such a brilliantly simple way that allows it to be applicable to any child, no matter how they were conceived or brought into this world. Or what the child's religious or cultural standards and practices are. It is purely informational, and does not contain any reference to intercourse. It does explain birth, both vaginal and C-section, but is not graphic in any way. It does not contain any images of any genitalia. The birthing explanations are tastefully done. So no matter if you are more conservative, or more open, it is equally helpful.
Sex is a Funny Word is geared towards those 8-10 years . Each chapter in the book starts off with a cartoon about the topic and ends with questions to spark more thought and conversation about what was covered in the chapter. The chapters cover topics such as what sex is, learning about your body, touch, boys and girls, and even covers things like having a crush on someone, love and relationships. Like What Makes a Baby, it is also simply written for this age group as well. It does not include information on ejaculation or menstruation but it does show cartoon images of what a penis and vulva (commonly known as vagina) look like and that hair will eventually grow there. It does talk about touching yourself, but it is very simply explained, and once again, is not graphic at all.
From what I understand, the author Cory Silverberg will be working on a follow up book that will be geared towards ages and stages beyond the pre-pubescent years. I look forward to seeing that book as well, and would be a great tool for parents whose kids are moving into the pubescent phase of their lives.
I love that these books are inclusive, no matter where you come from, how you were raised, how you were conceived, how you were born, or what the dynamics of each child's family is. It is broken down so simply that I wonder why it never occurred to me before to explain it this way.
I highly recommend these books! Whether you purchase the titles, or get them from the library, they are great resources. Even if there was something in the book that you felt might be too taboo for you or that you aren't comfortable with your child reading, you can use them as tools for yourself. You can read them through on your own and pick and choose which topics would be most suitable and helpful for your particular family. You can also tailor the questions they ask you so that you can get the most out the conversation with your child when the time comes to do so, in a way that you feel most comfortable with.
These topics can be extremely awkward for some, if not most parents. Save yourself the hassle and check out the books! I highly doubt you'd be disappointed!
What Makes a Baby retails in both Canada and the US for $16.95. Sex is a Funny Word retails for $23.95USD/CAN.
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